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What’s Your Story?

Filed under: Blog · June 26, 2017

After days of stressing over BlogHer17, we finally packed up the Caddy and headed up to O-town! Thanks to the Almighty for smooth highways, no traffic or major delays. We arrived at the hotel at 3:30 p.m. giving me exactly one hour to check in, change and head across the street to the Hilton. The night before I prayed that we got to stay in the tower right across from the Hilton and guess what…… prayer works. Thank you Universe! Our tower was literally right across from the crosswalk to the Hilton. I was so exhausted and ready to get this show on the road that I didn’t stress over my Thursday night outfit. Or any of my outfits. (See below)

The registration lines were so long that they allowed us to just go in for the opening keynote speaker! I nervously sat at a table towards the front of the stage with 9 other strangers. It was a bit awkward at first but after browsing around the room I recognized quite a few Miamians. I felt so relieved. The vibe in the room was something magical. Over 2000 bloggers (mostly women) in one room talking about changing the world.

I must admit that when I first thought about BlogHer I thought it would just be about making money from your blog or how to gain more followers. Boy was I wrong. The focus of most of the keynote speakers was how we can use our voice to change the world. To start a movement. To make a difference. When you acknowledge the power of your gifts, ideas and passion, you can really change someone’s world.

I was so glad that I took that leap and went. I am thankful to my wonderful husband that took all three kids to Magic Kingdom and Animal Kingdom while I got my BlogHer on. I am thankful for all of the beautiful people that I met at the bar, the bathroom, waiting in line for lunch, and waiting in line for speed dating. It was truly a life changing weekend for me. So if you are blogging and wondering why, or is anyone really reading your posts, know that they are and your story can change someone’s life.

XO,

Sharonda

Anniversary

Filed under: Mom Life · June 3, 2017

Today is officially my 2nd Anniversary as FemCity (formerly Femfessionals) Miami President. I always told my friends that I would serve 2 years as President and pass the torch to someone else. I actually said that up until January of this year. Being the President of a group definitely has its ups and downs. There is a lot of expectation. People show up when it’s beneficial to them. They ask you for a million things and when you ask them for one thing, they cannot be found. Most importantly, there is always someone waiting to take your place. This journey has led to many life lessons for me. So I figured that I should share them with you.

I learned that it is okay to say no to others. If it doesn’t sound right, feel right, look right, guess what, it ain’t right.
To always be clear on your intentions. What do you really want from this?
You have the power to change your path.

Being a part of this group of women has been life changing. I have had to step out of my comfort zone and embrace some of my flaws. I am spoiled. Very spoiled. When I don’t get my way or things don’t go as planned I withdraw from whatever it is that caused me to feel like that. But as a leader, you can’t just turn and walk away. You have to decide if you can do something differently to make it better, ask for help or maybe step down. It is very easy to walk away. But when it is your calling to empower others, you have to fight on. As I enter into this 3rd year I know there is so much room for growth. I have already grown so much as you can see from my pictures and events. I have been told several times in the past 3 months this is my time to shine. I believe it. There is no better time than now to stop making excuses and walk in your greatness. I told Violette in our last meeting it is go big or go home. In my case stay home (my SAHM will get that one) lol.

So if you have been using the kids, husband, weight, time, money as an excuse not to step out of the box, I am here to say I feel you momma! But it is time. Life is too short and it is up to us as natural-born leaders to step up to the plate and use our gifts. Go back to school, take a photography class, submit those images or audition pieces and step into your greatness. I am ready and I know that you are too.

XO,

Sharonda

Keep the Faith

Filed under: Mom Life · January 24, 2017

This post is for those of you moms that may be going through a storm right now. Before you panic or throw in the towel remember that you are not alone. I have realized over the past few weeks that a lot of us are going through different trials and some are worse than others but when you are going through it, it doesn’t feel good. Be encouraged. Know that trouble doesn’t last always and yes, joy does come in the morning. If we just keep the faith and keep moving forward, everything will work out for the best. Keep smiling and don’t be afraid to ask for help. We are strong women but even the strongest woman needs a hug sometimes!

Be Blessed,

Sharonda

What’s Stopping YOU?

Filed under: Mom Life · June 21, 2016

I was talking to a few girlfriends the other night over drinks and you know how conversations change after the drinks lol. Don’t get the wrong impression we talked about life, how we met each other and well….girl talk. I shared my vision for Sporty Mommas and how much I want to inspire other moms. One of the ladies shared how she wanted to get a new job. Our other friend told about us her new love for vlogging but she was afraid to publish her videos. So I asked her what is stopping you?

As she answered with the normal responses (fear, time, not good enough…) I heard a little whisper saying “What is stopping YOU, Sharonda?” I paused and gave some of the same excuses… my kids are young, I don’t have a lot of time, my husband will think I am crazy but the truth is I am stopping me. We all have this fear of failing or not living up to the hype. So how do we get out of our own way? When are we going to live unapologetically and just do the damn thing? How many years before you finish that book? How many years before you go on that diet? How many years before you sell that painting that hundreds of people will love?

I truly believe that we all have gifts and those gifts are meant to be shared with the world. I may not reach a hundred thousand women but if I can inspire a few, I will be happy. It is not going to be easy but if it is meant to be and you do the work, you will be successful. As one of my mom’s friends always told me “Nothing beats a failure, but a try” So today I pledge to be ME, unapologetically and well…. I am going for it. Are you?

January MOM: Stacy Boegem

Filed under: Sporty Momma of the Month · January 7, 2015

Stacy Boegem, JD is fondly known as the Action Instigator and Mompreneur Mentor, as well as the President of Femfessionals Fort Lauderdale. With her remarkable ability to cultivate community and inspire action, Stacy leads modern women to get out of their own way and take action in their business and lives through private coaching, her signature Clarity + Action Mastermind series, and through speaking to audiences large and small.

Stacy has been featured in the Wall Street Journal, Women’s E-News, the CW’s Inside South Florida, and others. She has been selected to keynote the Greater Hollywood Chamber of Commerce Business Woman of the Year luncheon, Tulane University’s Women’s Leadership Conference, and is excited to be kicking of her own large scale live event on January 30 in Fort Lauderdale, Connect Relate Activate LIVE!

Q. How has motherhood changed your life?

Becoming a mother is what led me to do the work I do now. To use my unique strengths and talents to be of service in the world in a way that is so rewarding.Without motherhood, I’d probably still be practicing law! Instead, I get to coach women and spread the gospel of Work/Life synergy far and wide, leading the charge of modern mompreneurs to design their businesses and lives with their own happiness at the top of the agenda. Because happy moms create happy families!

Q. Who was the most influential person in your life growing up?

At the risk of sounding cliche, it is certainly my own mom. From her incredible work ethic, to her resilience, to her remarkable ability to reinvent herself (she had an illustrious career as an attorney in New Orleans, built a renowned B&B and ran it for many years, and became a successful headhunter for lawyers now with her own firm) she has always done it all without us ever feeling neglected or unheard. In other words, while she has always worked full-time, she’s always also been a full-time mom.

If I am doing half as well as she’s done, I’m doing just fine.

Q. Twenty years ago, did you ever see yourself becoming an entrepreneur?

While I’m a big believer is setting goals and having a big vision in life, I can honestly say that I’ve never been one to plan 20 years out. I truly had no idea 20 years ago what I’d be up to these days! And I have no idea what I’ll be up to 20 years from now!

Q. How do you juggle being a wife, mommy, the Ft. Lauderdale President of Femfessionals and running a successful coaching business?

The only way I know how: to be very disciplined with my time; avoid multi-taking at all costs, outsource the stuff that’s outside my zone of genius as much as I can, and practice mindfulness. That said, I do recognize that I’m doing too much, and 2015 for me is a lot about streamlining!

Q. What can we expect from CRA Live this January?

My intention with CRA LIVE is for each person to walk away with CLARITY as to their own best next steps to achieve their business and life goals – inspired to take action. But rather than a fleeting feeling of being motivated, attendees will leave with practical know-how so they can manage their own limiting beliefs and negative self-talk that so often get in the way of personal progress.

Each speaker is dynamic, entertaining, and authentic, and has so much to offer our audience. And I’m particularly excited to share my own coach, the woman who has been behind me cheering me on since before I even knew what a coach was – Lois Barth. Lois is a nationally recognized speaker and is coming in from NYC to take the stage – to give our audience a good helping of what I’m so fortunate to get every time we have a session. She is not to be missed!

Attendees will make great new connections, learn about their own unique personality advantages and how best to leverage them, and have the tools to turn their new insights into action!

More info on CRA LIVE at www.CRALiveEvent.com

Q. What advice do you have for other Sporty Mommas that may be thinking of starting their own business?

Start. Take that first step. Don’t wait for perfect conditions, because they will never come. Believe in yourself. Invest in yourself. Surround yourself with others moms who have started businesses and learn from them.

When you have ideas, write them down. When you’re overwhelmed, break down the project into small pieces. And when you have successes, even very little ones, celebrate them!

And remember, just because someone else did it one way doesn’t mean that’s the only way. Be true to yourself, and check in with your own inner guide along the journey. Trust your intuition.

To stay on track moving forward with support and accountability, consider working with a coach. The amount you progress you will make in such a short time will blow your mind.

Most of all, CONNECT with amazing people, RELATE to your prospects and customers, and ACTIVATE your ideas, your plans, your projects by getting out of your own way and taking action.

That’s what Connect Relate Activate LIVE is all about!

Q. How can our readers connect with you?

Join me on Friday, January 30, 2015, for a full-day immersive event for smart and driven women unlike anything else you’ve experienced.

Registration closes at 11:59 PM on Wednesday, January 14, 2015, over at www.CRALiveEvent.com.

To get resources and advice for modern mompreneurs, sign up for email updates over at www.stacyboegem.com. You’ll also receive exclusive invitations to my local events for women in business!

Stay in touch with me on Facebook and Twitter too! www.facebook.com/ StacyBoegem and www.twitter.com/stacyboegem

Sporty Mommas Connect

Filed under: News & Events · November 7, 2014

After hosting several successful Sporty Momma’s Night Out events, we are excited to announce Sporty Momma’s “CONNECT”! You are invited to join a fabulous community of women who are achieving great things in their areas of interest. By connecting with other successful ladies, you will have the opportunity to expand your network, be a part of a community that supports and encourages one another, and also provide more strategies that will promote the growth of your business. So let’s “CONNECT!”

Annual $50 Membership Includes:

*Name and business website included in website directory.

*Signature Sporty Momma Tee

*Reusable Tote Bag

*Access to “Connect Only” events (seminars, masterminds, private parties….)

* 10 % off all Sporty Mommas apparel

If interested in joining Sporty Mommas “Connect”, please complete the form below. Upon reviewing, an email confirmation will be sent to you.

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Finding YOUR Passion

Filed under: Uncategorized · January 14, 2014

It is a new year and that means new hopes and dreams and that burning desire to be better than you were the year before. So what is it that you really want to do but something has been standing in your way? Is it a book, a new job, starting your own business….what ever it is I am here to tell you the time is now!!! It is time to step out and just do it. I met a woman the other day that shared with me that she was in transition. She loved her job that she has worked for 15 years and she enjoys raising her teenage daughter but she felt the need to do more. Her daughter is graduating soon and she will be eligible for early retirement in a year or two. I asked her what she enjoyed doing and she replied, “ I like a lot of things”! Boy can I relate!

Finding your passion may seem hard at first but when you really break it down it is right in front of your face. It’s that thing that keeps you up at night, or day dreaming all day long. It comes easy to you. Your friends and family members may even be asking you “When are you going to….? It brings joy not only to you, but also to those around you. When I started Sporty Mommas, I had one goal in mind and that was to make moms feel good about themselves. I went through a period of time after my second child was born where I was missing something. I didn’t like the way my clothes fit, my hair wasn’t doing it, I was overwhelmed raising two kids under 3. I needed something of my own. I tried selling Mary Kay, Scentsy, Stella and Dot, and even volunteering. After praying and journaling for a few months, Sporty Mommas was born. Back then I had no idea where it would lead me, but I knew if I stepped out and did something for me, it would all fall into place.

It might take some time and experimenting but when you really find it you will know. Take a step toward your passion and do great things!!!!!

Be YOU, Be GREAT

Sharonda Stewart